Why girls hate nice guys and love jerks

Girls hate nice guys and love jerks.

Right?

Sort of.

See, nice guys aren't really nice guys. They're "scared" guys. Whenever you're about to say something, or want to say something, but hold back because you are worried what the other person might think or say, you automatically put yourself in the "nice guy" category.

But "nice" really means, "overly safe." Why are these guys repulsive to women? They want a guy who isn't afraid of society. They want a guy that can hold his own. Some guy that can't even express themselves honestly to her already fails big time.

Now, why do jerks get so much action? Because they don't hold back. They don't base their communication and expression based on what other people might think. Well, actually they do.

They are afraid of a certain reaction, most likely rejection, and believe it or not, they use the same strategy as the nice guy.

Nice guys are afraid of rejection, so they say "nice things" that won't get rejected.

Am I Good in Bed? (This May Change Your Mind)

How good am I in bed? Is she enjoying herself as much as I am? Does she look forward to sex as much as I do? Does she secretly fantasize about the time we've spent together AFTER I'm gone? And if not... WHY not? Any of these questions sound familiar? If you are anything like the vast majority of men who read our blog, articles or monthly newsletter about sex, the BIG question you have is whether you are measuring UP in the sack, right?

And with yet another mini sexual revolution taking place right before our eyes... who can blame you? Women are MORE sexually empowered, inspired and involved today than ever before... and if you are NOT doing your part in bed, the chances are, she's already secretly looking for someone else who will.

So what are the major factors that a man is NOT satisfying his woman in the sack?

According to several BIG sexual surveys done in 2012 and 2013, the biggest reasons that women are not happy with sex may actually surprise you.

Intercourse Stimulates Only The Penetrator's Sex Organ

Men, both gay and straight, can enjoy the intensely pleasurable sensations of anal penetration, when combined with appropriate lubrication and a sensitive lover. But usually male orgasm still relies on penile stimulation. Homosexual erotic fiction indicates that anal sex becomes uncomfortable for the receiving male if he loses his erection. Women only start to have erections (of the internal clitoral organ) in late middle age.

The heterosexual focus on intercourse is not just a matter of convention. Men are biologically programmed to prefer intercourse otherwise men could engage in oral sex or masturbation instead and none of us would be here to talk about it. Consequently most men cannot accept that women's responsiveness is so different to how it is portrayed in fictional media.