How good am I in bed? Is she enjoying herself as much as I am? Does she look forward to sex as much as I do? Does she secretly fantasize about the time we've spent together AFTER I'm gone? And if not... WHY not? Any of these questions sound familiar? If you are anything like the vast majority of men who read our blog, articles or monthly newsletter about sex, the BIG question you have is whether you are measuring UP in the sack, right?
And with yet another mini sexual revolution taking place right before our eyes... who can blame you? Women are MORE sexually empowered, inspired and involved today than ever before... and if you are NOT doing your part in bed, the chances are, she's already secretly looking for someone else who will.
So what are the major factors that a man is NOT satisfying his woman in the sack?
According to several BIG sexual surveys done in 2012 and 2013, the biggest reasons that women are not happy with sex may actually surprise you.
1 - Not enough foreplay.
This consistently is rated #1. Why? Because women NEED foreplay to achieve orgasm in most scenarios and it's also a very different erotic experience for us, than it is for you. (and important to intimacy in ways that are a bit beyond the scope of this article)
This consistently is rated #1. Why? Because women NEED foreplay to achieve orgasm in most scenarios and it's also a very different erotic experience for us, than it is for you. (and important to intimacy in ways that are a bit beyond the scope of this article)
2 - Sex is too short!
This is always close to the top when it comes to reasons that women report being sexually DIS satisfied in the sack. For example... the average woman takes close to 20 minutes of sexual intercourse to climax. Yet, the average sexual experience, from start to finish... typically lasts under 7 minutes. It's no big surprise than, that sexual stamina and staying power remains one of the BEST attributes a man can have, and one of the major secret sexual drivers that you are judged on as well. It's not an ego thing... it's a sexual satisfaction thing!
This is always close to the top when it comes to reasons that women report being sexually DIS satisfied in the sack. For example... the average woman takes close to 20 minutes of sexual intercourse to climax. Yet, the average sexual experience, from start to finish... typically lasts under 7 minutes. It's no big surprise than, that sexual stamina and staying power remains one of the BEST attributes a man can have, and one of the major secret sexual drivers that you are judged on as well. It's not an ego thing... it's a sexual satisfaction thing!
3 - Things get BORING in bed!
What is really interesting in most sexual conversations is this: Women are usually a lot slower to want to go to bed with a man, but once we do... our erotic imagination is set afire. On the other hand, men get comfortable with the same style of sex for weeks, months or even years afterwards.
What is really interesting in most sexual conversations is this: Women are usually a lot slower to want to go to bed with a man, but once we do... our erotic imagination is set afire. On the other hand, men get comfortable with the same style of sex for weeks, months or even years afterwards.
Women are far more likely to crave variety, experimentation and erotic exploration than our male partners usually are. What usually happens? Because having really deep conversations about sex are somewhat rare in relationships, and because there remain some sexual stigmas, women DON'T share what they really want to try with our men... and our men have no real idea that we need some variety to stay excited.
Of course there are a lot more than 3 factors when it comes to being good in bed, but the 3 simple tips above are the BEST place to begin.
And if you've got a woman who is bored in bed?
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